ANTITHESIS
Certainly! Lauren Berlant’s concept of “cruel optimism” refers to a relationship of attachment to objects, ideals, or futures that are ultimately harmful or unattainable, yet people cling to them because they provide a sense of hope or stability. The optimism is “cruel” because the very thing one desires—whether it’s a job, a relationship, or a societal ideal—often perpetuates the conditions of one’s suffering or blocks the possibility of real change.
For example:
- Economic mobility: Believing in the “American Dream” while systemic inequality makes it unattainable for many.
- Romantic love: Idealizing a perfect relationship that may never materialize, leading to repeated disappointment.
- Political promises: Trusting in political systems or leaders that consistently fail to deliver on their promises.
Berlant argues that these attachments are not just personal but are deeply embedded in societal structures, making them difficult to abandon even when they are detrimental. This aligns with hauntology, as it reflects how past promises and ideals continue to haunt and shape present realities, often trapping individuals in cycles of unfulfilled desire.